Your Erotic Personality

The Show-Off likes attention. In a sexual context, they love to be watched, admired, gawked at, and viewed. The Show-Off might be wearing something revealing or might be sauntering about a nudist camp -- either way, they crave your eyes on them. They are exhibitionists and their fantasy life is rife with scenarios where they have an audience.

Beauty is rivaled only by fame in the mind of the Name-Dropper. People who take their breath away are the ones they want. They often don’t even notice people who don’t possess striking looks. They want sex with people others will envy and respect. They want to inspire jaw-dropping jealousy in their friends. In fact, they’d rather be alone than be with someone who doesn’t measure up to their standards of beauty or notoriety. The Name-Dropper may be particularly partial to celebrities because they combine attractiveness and fame in one complete package. 

The Bottom is happiest sexually when being told what to do. Abandonment of mind and body is what pushes them toward real sexual fulfillment. They seek to prove their commitment to their lovers, often testing their own boundaries to their limits (and beyond). Enduring physical pain to prove their dedication is not at all unusual. The Bottom functions on a highly emotional level, closely linking the physical with the spiritual and intellectual.

The Top likes to call the shots -- sexually, at least. In real life, they may not show any signs of wanting or needing to be in control, but The Top needs not only to give orders but also to see them carried out. Their sexual pleasure is of the psychosexual variety, which means that they intellectualize sex more than most of the other erotic types. They may even like to deliver a bit of physical pain, but only if they know the recipient will enjoy that pain.

The Wanderer finds it difficult to let loose in locales where people might know them. The Wanderer is often quite sexually adventurous but needs to get out of town before they can let their hair down. Strange, exotic places deliver the anonymity and permission that The Wanderer needs to flirt, be outrageous, try new activities, and expand their sexual repertoires. The Wanderer does have sex at home but makes most sexual discoveries while on vacation or even traveling on business.

The Cuckold is turned on by seeing, imagining, or hearing about their lover with somebody else. Cuckolds get hot when they realize they may not be enough to satisfy the seemingly insatiable sexual needs of their lovers—and they may even play a role in finding additional lovers for them to ensure that they get enough sex. They don’t get sexually jealous but they do get emotionally attached.

The Romantic needs to feel sought-after and practically worshipped before sex can be on the agenda. They imagine partners who not only make passionate love to them soon after saving them, but they imagine those partners will know how to please them without any instruction whatsoever. The Romantic is especially fond of people who can read their minds and deliver the sexual excitement that they secretly desire.

This is the mother of all erotic types and almost everyone has a bit of The Escapist in them. An Escapist’s fantasy life is active and rich, but it is characterized by fantasies that they’ve nurtured and cultivated to perfection. The Escapist's fantasies are absolutely necessary for erotic fulfillment -- they can't enjoy sex without them.

 "Sexy" means something different to everybody -- yet nobody's definition or perception is any better than anyone else's.  We're all wired to find certain ideas, images, or activities erotic, but did you know that identifying what turns you on is the key to making you the sexiest you can be? The answers lie in your erotic personality, so give a listen to find out how to tap into your erotic core!  <a href="http://www.podcastalley.com/"> My Podcast Alley feed!</a> {pca-dba524ac309546979ffa9a93109a53aa}<a href="http://odeo.com/claim/feed/5d94679cdb6b9050">My Odeo Channel</a> (odeo/5d94679cdb6b9050)