The Top Personality

The Top likes to call the shots -- sexually, at least. In real life, they may not show any signs of wanting or needing to be in control, but The Top needs not only to give orders but also to see them carried out. Their sexual pleasure is of the psychosexual variety, which means that they intellectualize sex more than most of the other erotic types. They may even like to deliver a bit of physical pain, but only if they know the recipient will enjoy that pain.